Myths about Strict Mistresses
by Ms. Delia of www.begformistress.com
A Strict Mistress is often thought of as a screaming, sadistic bitch, and while that can be true in certain scenes, it is not always the case. Strict Mistresses know exactly what they want, and have the expectation that as a good submissive, you will do exactly was is told to you, and you will do it well, with reverence, and letting your true submission show how you adore your Mistress. A Strict Mistress can be sensual at times, but often that is a special type of scene. For the most part, Strict Mistresses are involved in the BDSM Lifestlyle, and often have submissives at their beck and call. But what are the myths about a strict Mistress? Let's explore a few.
Myth - A Strict Mistress Screams and Yells at her Slaves
For me personally, being a lifestyle Mistress who is indeed strict, I truly despise this myth! See, I believe if a Mistress has to scream and yell at her submissive that something in their dynamic is very broken down. Instead of screaming, I feel that a good strict Mistress uses her tone, gestures, and how she looks at her submissive to maintain complete control! A strict Mistress DOES maintain control, and if a submissive crosses a line, there is a consequence. I will go as far as saying I do not think screaming, even in a degrading humiliation scene, has a place with a good strict Mistress!
Myth - A Strict Mistress ALWAYS uses Pain
This myth is simply not true. Let's say your kink goals focus around a feminization transformation. Does there need to be pain involved in this? No! A Strict Mistress would have rules, protocols, clearly spelled out expectations, and more to transform you. Generally in this scenario pain does not play in at all. But what about punishment? Isn't that always physical pain? No! Let's say you are a pain slut, masochist, spanking enthusiast, or one who can't get enough impact play. Pain would excite you, not be a deterrent. A Strict Mistress might choose to ignore you and give you mundane tasks as a punishment, and for some slaves that is pure Hell!
Myth - A Strict Mistress Always Wears Leather, Boots, and has Whips
This myth is actually very silly. BDSM Porn movies may facilitate this kind of thinking. As a strict, lifestyle Mistress, I actually do things like grocery shop, go out to dinner, go to appointments, work out, etc. Leather and stiletto boots are just not appropriate for those activities! A strict Mistress "wears" a certain attitude and demeanor no matter her outfit! A pencil skirt, pumps and stockings, and silky blouse can be just as effective as any fetish type outfit. It is all in how Mistress carries herself. The outfit can enhance, but does not make" the woman! What is inside her does!
There is no "one size fits all" with a Strict Mistress. Knowing this, be sure to provide your strict Mistress with all the information she needs to know about you. Perhaps fill out a BDSM Activity Chart to give Mistress a clear picture of who you are as a submissive. A strict Mistress will surely personalize training, rewards, and punishments, and lay out clear rules, expectations, and protocols for you!
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